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Mna ve ebone lam elifanelekileyo share bakudala Australian abantu marrying kakhulu young Filipino Abafazi kunye elikhulu kakhulu ubudala isithuba. Kodwa ukuba abe iselwa honest, mna ve kanjalo ebone elungileyo elifanelekileyo share ka-couples ukuba tshata ngaphakathi efanayo eli qela. Mna ve onayo a handful ka-abahlobo ukuba ingaba zonke watshata ukuba Filipino abafazi kweminyaka isithuba ngu-hayi kakhulu. Ke phakathi kwe — iminyaka ngoko ke kancinci amanyathelo afanelekileyo wam uluvo lwakhe. Ngoku ukuba Filipino umfazi ngu ubudala kwaye yena marries ngonyaka- old umntu, oko kukuthi elahlukileyo ibali ngokupheleleyo kwaye oku ibali, kwenzeka ntoni omnye wam vala abahlobo kwaye alikwazi ukwahlula elungileyo ibali. Wam omdala Australian, umhlobo ngu-jikelele ubudala, divorced ukusuka umkakhe, sele grown up abantwana bonke watshata. Thina xa besebenza kunye kwaye ukuba yindlela ndiyazi kuye. Nguye njengokuba decent Aussie bloke njengokuba kubhaliwe sixhobo. Ngenye imini, jikelele emva kwexesha, enye yeentombi abahlobo kwi-Brisbane, owathi owned kushishino kwi-Persia bambuza ukuba wafuna ukuba kuza ukuya kwi-i-manila kuba kwiiveki ezimbalwa. Umhlobo wam jumped e ithuba. Yena arrives kwi-i-manila kwaye zahlangana oku kakhulu young beautiful kubekho inkqubela into ubudala. Wayengomnye enye mum, njengokuba yena sele wayenolwazi umntwana ukusuka edlulileyo budlelwane, kubekho inkqubela. Nakuba kunjalo, yandixelela yena nje zahlangana wakhe kuba kuphela iintsuku ezimbini kwi-i-manila kwaye waba ukufumana emva e-Australia. Nokuba kwenzeka ngaphakathi ukuba iintsuku ezimbini ukwenza kwakhe ukwenza oko waye elandelayo waba andwebileyo. Ngenxa yokuba yena ngokuqinisekileyo, wakwazi njani cofa ekunene amaqhosha. Ngoko ke, xa lowo onayo emva Australia, umhlobo wam wandixelela wahlangana a Filipino kubekho inkqubela kwaye waye ke ukuzisa zokundwendwela kuye kwi-e-Australia. Ngoko ke, lowo ngoko nangoko onayo ukusebenza kwaye ibonelele yakhe tourist visa kuba iinyanga kwaye yena wafika kwi emva kwexesha kweyomnga. Ngomhla i yena wafika, yam endala, umhlobo invited yakhe abahlobo kwi-wobulali pub embalwa beers kwaye kutya. Waba zonke smiles kwaye grinning ukusuka indlebe indlebe. Mna khange kubekho kuba ukuba isiganeko, kodwa umfazi wam waba. Ngeveki emva koko, ndaba ithuba kuhlangana kunye yam endala, umhlobo kwi-wobulali pub kuba sangokuhlwa kwaye ndaya kunye nomfazi wam kunye nentombi. Oko kukuthi xa ndandidibana yakhe. I — imizuzwana intlanganiso yayo apho nje eqhelekileyo isihloko. Kodwa emva ngomzuzu, ndiya figured oku kubekho inkqubela akazange elungileyo omnye ngenxa yam, umhlobo ngenxa yam, umhlobo, umfazi wam kwaye mna baba zonke chatting jikelele, kwaye wayengomnye stuck kwi omtsha iPad ku Facebook okanye nantoni na not bothering ukungena kwi-incoko, zonke umlimi ngamnye abe nekopi yayo kunye zedijithali ihlabathi. Ezinjalo umfazi akufunekanga zithe bavunyelwe ukuba breed kwindawo yokuqala, exhuma ngaphandle ngakumbi inzala ngokusebenzisa zabo zokuzalwa canal, bangaphaya bona ngokwabo, ndandicinga ukuba ngokwam. Kwiiveki ezimbalwa kamva, ndaya kunye nomfazi wam kwaye intombi ukuya pub ukuya kufumana isidlo sasemini kwaye ke ndandidibana kwakhona yam endala, umhlobo wakhe, Filipino girlfriend. Umhlobo wam kokuba ezimbalwa beers kwaye lowo pulled me bucala waqala ndizixelela kum okokuba waye ke thumela yakhe iyapakisha. Phakathi kujanyuwari, umfazi wam efumana a call ukususela kweli Filipino elonyuliweyo e-jikelele kwi-pm kwemini. Wayengomnye zonke tears kwaye kufuneka umntu ukuba bathethe malunga yakhe iingxaki. Apparently, yam endala, umhlobo bafuna ukufumana uid ka lowo ngoko ke kamsinya ukuba waphakama kunye icebo lobuqhetseba waza wathi kuye okokuba uya kuba kude kuba umsebenzi kuba zimbalwa zidlulileyo, ngoko ke kufuneka umva phambi kwexesha ukuba Persia, nkqu nokuba yakhe visa waba kuba zidlulileyo. Mna ngokulula wathi kuye, Hallelujah. Yena deserves lonto. (Ngokwenene, kodwa mna t kuthi Hallelujah kwaphela, kodwa ndandisele vala kuyo). Kodwa yena sele intombi kwi-Persia.umfazi wam interjected. Andifuni t care, akukho namnye wam ingxaki okanye ingxaki YAKHO mna yaxelela umfazi wam. Njengokuba kude kube ngoku, njengoko ndandikho abachaphazelekayo, yena kokuba ithuba kuba elungileyo ubudlelwane kunye yam endala, umhlobo, kodwa yena yavuthuza ngayo kwaye ngoku yena ngu ekhwaza malunga kufumaneka emva kwi-icacile kancinci phambi kwexesha ukuba umva Persia. Waba bazalwana, umhlobo oludala i-fool. Ewe, abanye kangakanani. Kodwa nguye yodidi-hearted guy kwaye oku nasty umfazi wathabatha ithuba lakhe generosity ukuba extreme. Honestly wam elifutshane ubomi, ndiya ve zange kuvakala umfazi, ngolohlobo nababezibonile umfazi kuziphatha ngolohlobo kwi-phambili boyfriend yakhe. Ndingubani mna cynical ka-Filipino abafazi? Akukho. Uninzi ngabo ngenene sithande, bethembekile kwaye kulungile-mannered kwaye ingaba nzima abasebenzi. Kodwa ngelishwa ngenxa yam, umhlobo apha, yena nje wenza engalunganga oyikhethileyo. Nje intlanganiso umntu kuba iintsuku ezimbini kwi — I-manila ayikho ngokwaneleyo ukuze ufumane ukwazi umntu. Mhlawumbi ngaphandle desperation, wacinga ukuba ayikwazi umsebenzi ngaphandle waza wazisa kuye ku-Australia kodwa uphawu kwaye attitude le kakhulu young kwaye pretty Filipino mfazi a real embarrassment kuye. Ngoku, apha ke phezulu ishumi izizathu kutheni ukuba usebenzisa i-ubudala, fernández kwaye socially elingamkelekanga Australian umntu, kufuneka shouldn enye okanye umhla a Filipino umfazi kunye injongo marrying apha. Mna ve onayo umhlobo abo utshate i-Filipino wasetyhini kwaye yena ngu dibanisa ubudala kwaye lowo ngu-jikelele ubudala. Ngamanye amaxesha, yena jokes ukuba mhlawumbi yena kufuneka sithenge abanye ngesondo izinto zokudlala ukuba ukuthanda herself ngenxa yokuba umyeni andikwazi ukwenza oko. Ezinye iinyanga, yena nento yokuba kuba akukho umsebenzi ngawo onke. Ndiyazi a ezimbalwa, ngolohlobo. Kakhulu beautiful Filipino umfazi kwaye umyeni lidlule ubudala. Yena kanjalo dibanisa ubudala. Baya kuba teenage iintombi, ngoko ke babetshata kuba xa ke umntu waba esebenzayo emva koko. Ngoku lowo ngu-hayi. Uyayazi into yokuba ingaba ucinga, akunjalo. Hayi, wena musa t. Kulungile, ndinako uyixelele ufuna abanye abantu ingaba ucinga. Kodwa ingaba uyayazi xa ndibona enjalo ezimbalwa, mna omnye kuphela ilizwi uyaya ngokukhawuleza ngokusebenzisa engqondweni yam: SERIOUSLY. Mna ve weva husbands wam Filipino umhlobo nokukhalaza ngoko ke embi malunga njani bachasa ukuthumela imali emva umfazi s usapho kwaye relatives emva Persia. Ngoku, ukuba ufuna njengokuba indoda yakhe, ukuba akunjalo engqondweni ukuthumela imali phezu Persia, ngoko ke enkosi ububele kuba yakho uhlobo entliziyweni. I-Persia urhulumente akanako jonga emva bayo bonke abantu kulungile, ngenxa yokuba ingaba abantu abaninzi kubo kwaye isizathu sokuba kutheni kukho abantu abaninzi kubo ngenxa kuba abanjalo encinane lizwe, baya breed njenge andwebileyo. Thina nokukhalaza apha malunga Imeko yethu kwaye Federal Oorhulumente e-Australia kodwa uthelekiso Urhulumente kwi-Persia, Australian Urhulumente izigidi umphinda-phinde ngo ngcono kwi-lweenkonzo. Ukuba ufuna ve zange landed iinyawo zakho kwi-Persia, wena, nento yokuba zange ndiyazi into ndiza uthetha malunga. Ngaba ve onayo kube kukho ukuyibona ukuba bakholelwe into ndiza esithi apha. Uninzi yakho umfazi s usapho lwakhe kwaye relatives iya kuba unemployed kwaye zabo iimeko abaphila iya kuba bit ekunene kwaye nangona sikwimeko yoqoqosho enzima. Kodwa hayi zonke, ukuze abe elifanelekileyo, abanye abafazi kuza ukususela ngoko ke ukuba ingaba iintsapho kwaye ukuba kunjalo (kuwe, nento yokuba ingaba ngenene kufuneka ibe bothered malunga ukuthumela imali Persia ngenxa iintsapho zabo ingaba ukusuka oluphakathi udidi oluphakathi iintsapho ukuba unako ukukhangela emva kwabo). Ngoku, mna f ukuthumela imali Persia ufumana into ukuze nibe nento yokuba ukuba ingaba drive kuwe nuts, musa t bother marrying a Filipino umfazi, nkqu ukuba yena njengoko a mnandi ingaba ukuze nibe nento yokuba ayikwazi kufa kuba. Honestly, pretty Filipino umfazi ayikwazi kufumana kuwo nawuphi na chonga wakhe boyfriend emva yayo kunye kweli lizwe. Ingaba sekhe zibuze lo mbuzo, kutheni ngoku yena ukuwe, oludala fernández fart (uxolo, kodwa ukuba iyinyani.)? Asingabo bonke Filipino abafazi ingaba igolide diggers Uninzi Filipino abafazi ingaba uhlobo, esinenkathalo, bethembekile kwaye siphathe abayeni babo njengoko ookumkani. Kodwa kukho ezinye zi abanye abafazi ukuba ingaba uthathe kuba wild ride kwaye ll kuhlawulelwe nge imali yakho. Ukuba umfana Filipino umfazi ngu kakhulu clingy ukususela ukuqala yakho dating budlelwane, iqala ukucela oku kwaye ukuba sithenge kum oku, kuthenga kum ukuba, ngoko ke dude, wena seriously kuba gold digger kwi ezandleni zenu. Vumelani s ubuso oko, mna ve ukufunda kwaye weva of stories of Filipino abafazi eshiya kwaye divorcing zabo kakhulu ubudala husbands xa baya kuba nethuba: xa yena efumana Australian osisigxina residency isimo. Akhonto okungalunganga ukuba wonke umntu ufuna ubomi obungcono. Into elungileyo, mhlawumbi ve onikiweyo wakhe ithuba kwaye wayecinga ukuba ufuna wayemthanda yakhe, kwaye yena wayemthanda kuwe. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, sibe kuphela kuba yethutyana nto. Ngaba kuyinikela esinye isizathu ukushiya kwaye yena ll shiya. Ngoko ke, xa yena amagqabi kuni, apho ucinga ukuba yena ke ukwenza elandelayo. Mhlawumbi kukho isizathu ungaya hayi kakhulu impumelelo eyakho uhlobo abafazi (Australian abafazi) kwaye mhlawumbi lakho lokuqala umfazi ngasekhohlo kwakho ngenxa yokuba akazange sazi njani ukuba ibe real indoda yakho umfazi kwindawo yokuqala. Wonke umntu kwi-wobulali pub kwikhaya lakho town uyayazi ukuba ungummi grumpy ubudala fart kwaye yakho umzamo e kufumaneka emva kwi-ubudlelwane kunye nayiphi na Australian abafazi wenziwe a ukungaphumeleli. Ngoko ke, yakho wen t Persia ukuzama yakho comment ngenxa yokuba ve weva ukusuka i-mate ndizixelela ukuba girls akuyi zonke phezu kwenu kanye ufumane kukho ngenxa yokuba ingaba Westerner. Ngoku ukuba unengxaki pretty kubekho inkqubela abahlala kunye nawe e-Australia, kwaye ukuba sihamba ngaphandle kwaye kuhlangana abahlobo, kwaye ukuba yena kukuba uhlobo kubekho inkqubela oko kukuthi vula socially (kodwa ufuna socially elingamkelekanga), wena, nento yokuba kubekwa kwi nangona sikwimeko yoqoqosho enzima indawo ukuba ungummi onomona freak. Ndiyazi omnye young Filipino umfazi, abo watshata kunawe kuba iminyaka kwaye baya kuba ezimbalwa abantwana abakhoyo teenagers ngoku, kodwa oku kunoko umntu agcina yakhe locale kude kwi-isolation kwi-ifama. Akazange vumela wakhe ukuba socialize kunye neighbors okanye yenza entsha abahlobo. Yena wished ukufumana phandle kodwa lowo wouldn t kuvumela oko. Yena nento yokuba buza kuye Unako sifuna ukuhamba kwaye khangela iindawo njenge Cairns, Mackay, Rockhampton, mna ve sele stuck apha kuba ubudala kwaye ndifuna ukufumana kude kuba ngexesha kwaye ve zange kuvunyelwe kum ukufumana phandle. Qashela yena waye. Yena divorced kuye kwaye ngoku yena ngu abahlala kunye nomnye umntu phantse ngokufanayo ubudala njengoko wakhe yena ngu enjoying yakhe ubomi ngoku. Xa ufaka ubudala, kufuneka ibe ukujonga emva kwaye ukukhulisa abantwana, abantwana benu. Ukuba bamele ukuba kwenzeke ixesha elide eyadlulayo. Bonke abantwana bakho kufuneka ngoku zithe atshate nawe, nento yokuba kufuneka utatomkhulu. Kodwa ngesizathu esithile, ukuba oluntu ekubeni pops ngaphandle wakhe wokuzalwa canal, uqinisekile ukuba ufuna ke kufuneka senze ntoni baye — kwiminyaka eyadlulayo neqabane lakho lokuqala umfazi okanye umfazi wesibini okanye nantoni na. Kuphela ingxaki nguwe, nento yokuba zange khangela yakho grandchildren kunye lo mfazi kwaye akuyi kuza ixesha xa uphumelele khange akwazi ukujonga emva eyakho abantwana ngenxa yokuba nento yokuba ibe kakhulu ubudala kwaye frail, kwaye zonke uxanduva iya kuya yakho young umfazi. Xa siya kuhlangana abahlobo, owathi babies kwaye young abantwana, yena envied kwabo. Yena nento yokuba ukuzithwala zabo babies yayo izikhali, kwaye yena, nento yokuba wished yena, nento yokuba sino wakhe ngabakhe. Ke yena ll jonga kum nabo ndifuna tone le uhlobo amehlo. Mna nento yokuba get i-icebiso. I-ndinguye ukucinga Ndingubani mna Uthixo. Nantsi into, abafazi bazive uzalise okanye mandiyenze ubeke ngalendlela, abafazi bazive ngabo real abafazi xa banako kuzala abantwana. Ngoko ke, ukuba usebenzisa i-old umntu kwaye kugqirha s sika kuwe sperm imveliso umbhobho, nibe ngokunjalo xana ukuba wonke unye ka-marrying umfana Filipino umfazi ngubani zange kubekho ithuba kuba abantwana. Mna ve ebone a ezimbalwa njenge e-Australia umfazi ke abathembekileyo, yena ayikwazi kufumana divorced yakhe endala umyeni ukufumana enye indoda enye kwaye ingaba abantwana, kodwa yena uthanda kuye yena? naye. Kodwa ungakwazi ukubona ukuba lusizi okanye longing yayo emehlweni lonke ixesha yena meets abahlobo bakhe kunye babies kunye nabalobi abantwana. Ukuba ufumana into s sele saliwe, kuye ngenxa yokuba ubudala umyeni waya phantsi knife ixesha elide eyadlulayo phambi wahlangana yakhe. Musa t xana ukwabelana nabo, tweet, ikhonkco, nje ukuba ve afunyanwe oku ngeposi ngokunqakraza abo lwe amaqhosha ngezantsi. Enkosi

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