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Mna anayithathela waphila kwi-Persia kuba iminyaka. Mna umsebenzi kunye young Filipino amadoda nabafazi. Ngokunxulumene ezininzi imithombo, kukho izinto ezimbalwa izizathu: -Usapho yiyo yonke into Filipinos. Kakhulu le inkcubeko kwaye abaninzi benza izigqibo ingaba bazibona ngokusebenzisa umfanekiso osapho (oko kukuthi lento okulungileyo usapho lwam. Usapho phambi kokuba mna, baya kufumana ixabiso lazo ngaphezulu kwi qela ngabo inxalenye usapho umhlobo iqela (Barked) njalo-njalo. (Collectivism ndicinga ukuba oko ke, ngokuba baninzi Asian amazwe ingaba efanayo kulo mba) Westerners ukufumana ixabiso lazo kwi-abo bamele njengoko oyedwa. -Hayi zonke, okanye nkqu ezininzi, nangayiphina, kodwa abaninzi Filipinos tshata kuba imali. Kwi-Western inkcubeko thina itshata ye-uthando, romance, uthelekiso, njalo-njalo. Abaninzi Filipinos benze ngokunjalo kodwa abanye tshata kuba imali kwaye uzinzo. Xa westerner marries a Filipino, nabo ngethemba sazi ngabo marrying lonke usapho (ubuncinane financially), ngenxa yokuba Filipino uza silindele kubo negalelo wonke eyandisiweyo usapho. -Nanini a Filipino marries umntu ukuba evela iqela ke mbasa ka-ngakumbi ‘isimo’, pulls baphele ngo ubume nayo. Abaninzi Filipinos ukuba highly ka-Americans, kwaye amanye amaqela ngokunjalo. Ukuba babe tshata umntu ukusuka omnye la maqela, pulls baphele ngo»imeko»nakanjani. Umzekelo, ndine Filipino umhlobo abo watshata a Taiwanese kubekho inkqubela. Waba, ngokulandelelanayo, wacinga ka-ngakumbi imeko ngenxa abo kokuba atshate. Ukumbule, ukuze xa bazibona nge-western inkcubeko sibe jonga»ngaphandle»okanye epheleleyo ukuba ezi young girls tshata ubudala mhlophe abantu kwaye ibe, kodwa mna anayithathela zahlangana ezininzi okokuba baba ngokwenene happily watshata ukuba ezi kunoko abantu Ukuba baye bafunda ukuthanda kwabo okanye ngokwenene wayemthanda kwabo ukususela ekuqalekeni andiyazi. Kwi-nomngeni kunye ezahlukeneyo cultures kunokuba zethu kunye thina kufuneka kusoloko ulumkele na okokuba judgement ngokunjalo jonga oko ngokusebenzisa ukuba inkcubeko ke owakhe lens. Kutheni na zonke ngempumelelo Indian i-american abantu marrying mhlophe abafazi. Ayikwazi oku kube enye nokuthi ngempumelelo omnyama abantu marrying mhlophe sesizalo

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